The Kick

Couple of days back, Dear and I had been researching on suitable name for our BB Tay.

Renee
Phoebe

NO Cs!

Having R and P... Dear refused to use any names starting with 'C' for BB Tay because we will end up having PRC.... NOOooOOOooOOooOOOOOooo~*

No Is!

Using I doesn't make it better with our existing R and P... so Nope!

How about Gs?

So I suggested that he will probably prefer 'G', having RPG (Role Playing Game), so appropriate for a daddy who loves gaming... So many Gs! 'Gale' sounds good but since Dear is Tay, it became Gale Tay, which sounds a little like "Guilty"... Hmmz... Then, I picked Google, since I was using Google to search for names.... Google Tay... HOhOHo! Dear said NOOOoOOOOOOOOOoOOoooo~*

Just when I was jokingly calling BB - Google Tay when talking to him, he actually gave me a kick! Haaa... Week 20, I am starting to feel you even more, Baby! If BB can kick the belly fats away, pls do more kicks from now onwards!

So, Dear and I are back to the initiation state of finding suitable name for this little brother. Hope we can move to Planning, Execution, Control and Monitoring.... soon. Kekeke~*

More Kicks to come... Jiayou, Baby!

Poor Phoebe

Unlike her sister who can almost fall asleep anywhere, Phoebe couldn't south herself to sleep until she's totally exhausted.

This week passed quickly but for Phoebe, she only slept at midnight despite being extremely tired whenever she got to a 'new' environment.

First night at in laws place, she slept at midnight. After 4 nights stay, she's back home, to her own sweet room but only fell asleep at nigh night after a loud cry...

Poor girl. I'd rather let her stay put at home the next time if I ever need to get away for a few days... Can't see her suffer like that...

Amnio Test

My Oscar test results was 1:44 (close to 2%), which was not good, as compared to my two earlier pregnancies which odds were 1:thousands over...

Turned out that Oscar test is only a probability based on fetus measurement, blood test and so on.

Having a near 2% bad results from the Oscar probability test, our gynae advised us to take up the invasive amnio test, which is 99.9% accuracy on definite results, no longer a probability.

Why harmony test wasn't our next option? Our gynae explained that harmony test was more accurate than Oscar but both were merely probability. High probability doesn't mean baby has Down syndrome and the same otherwise. Also, it takes sometimes to get the results. What if the probability turns out as high? We will still have to go for amnio test or be continue to be worried for the rest of the pregnancy period.

In short, I feel that couples should skip both Oscar and harmony tests which are only probability test which doesn't mean much in reality. As for whether or not to proceed with amnio test, I have no idea myself...

We did it, per recommendation from the gynae. The results came back as normal for the few critical/ life threatening chromosomes, we had to wait for a few more days for the rest of the results to become available. 

Today is my third day of hospitalization leave/ bed rest. Now, I am praying hard for the BB to be safe and unaffected from the amnio procedure.

It's not a pleasant experience... But as long as the baby is fine, it will take all the pain and worries away.

小文兴万岁！爸爸妈妈爱你！姐姐们都在等你喔！

18 weeks and counting. Jiayou!! \(^,^)/

Strategy... My 24hr gaze

Locked screen (edited)

Home screen

LRT weekend

What to do on a boring weekend when helper is having her OFF day?

Let's visit Punggol. Hahaha! Boring, indeed... But it's interesting ride for the girls because we are taking the public transport --- LRT!!!

They really enjoy taking "train" around... Kekeke ^^

This is the way I do puzzle!

I don't like you

Words hurt.

Because it came out from someone whom we care...

I don't like you... 童言无忌

5 mins at playground

This is not a pleasant entry but more of an angry one...

Good thing that daddy was always nearby to hold on to our girls when incidents happened...

I was so puzzled about why these parents didn't act or react when they see their girls doing things that could cause danger to the other kids...

Firstly, it was a dad who watched his big girl (at least 5 years old) climbed up the slide when Phoebe was already sitting at the top waiting to slide down. The dad just stood there and expected us to give way to his girl who came later and in opposite direction... Cut queue?

This same dad also stared blankly without any intervention when this big girl went to the swing and tried to chase Renee who was swinging happily away. So this big girl 'snatched' over the swing and happily swing. That dad just watched and did nothing about it.

Then, came another mum who seemed very distracted all the time... Her little girl was probably at the same age as Phoebe. At the same slide that Phoebe had been playing for a while, came this little girl who tried to push her down the slide when Phoebe was hanging from the rim above the top of the slide. This mum just stood at the side and watched her girl pushing our girl... Luckily, daddy held on to Phoebe and prevented her from flying down the slide from the push. (Just imagined that I was screaming from the bench I was resting on when I saw the push while that lady did absolutely nothing)

In fact, she was still glued to the see-saw when her little girl already ran away from the playground... And her eyes weren't on the baby at all... Very impressive lady!